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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2023 8:11:07 GMT -7
Hi Draconis, I have some thoughts I've been mulling over and based on what I'm learning for my personal path n growth I wanted to hear what you think if you have any thoughts....should you have any.
So I've been playing around with the idea that I don't have to forgive and that I can even feel hatred for someone. Most people say to live in present moment and to be positive you're supposed to forgive. That hatred eats you alive, yet as a sith student who seeks to find power by experiencing the whole of something, I believe one can feel hatred yet temper their responses. I don't have to let my hatred devour me from inside and all emotions are valid messengers. It's the actions one takes that matters and I think I will allow myself to feel a myriad of emotions for a bit then share what tools I'm using to temper my actions while feeling such emotions.
What do you think? Any challenges to what I'm saying?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2023 8:18:13 GMT -7
Hi Draconis, I have some thoughts I've been mulling over and based on what I'm learning for my personal path n growth I wanted to hear what you think if you have any thoughts....should you have any. So I've been playing around with the idea that I don't have to forgive and that I can even feel hatred for someone. Most people say to live in present moment and to be positive you're supposed to forgive. That hatred eats you alive, yet as a sith student who seeks to find power by experiencing the whole of something, I believe one can feel hatred yet temper their responses. I don't have to let my hatred devour me from inside and all emotions are valid messengers. It's the actions one takes that matters and I think I will allow myself to feel a myriad of emotions for a bit then share what tools I'm using to temper my actions while feeling such emotions. What do you think? Any challenges to what I'm saying? I remember when I ran away from my emotions or just transmuted them or had coping mechanism to fall asleep when I felt intense anger. I don't think I seek to hold onto set emotions but sometimes people just leave such a bad taste in mouth that I feel ultimate hatred or nothing. I seek to learn from it and observe my actions. I observe the energy exchange and how I could've done better. Then I take that forward and seek to do better next time. The more I learn the more I move past it and don't feel hatred all the time. At times I remember and then I felt things again but then it goes away. It can be pretty intense and yet I'm starting to feel okay with that. I learned how to feel and change myself for self empowerment because I thought feeling emotions isn't worth it. Plus the consequence on body and how it can have supposed adverse health affects which in response I feel more fear. I want to be healthy and maintain top peak shape in my body. I think I'll allow myself the true unhindered emotional responses and just sit there in the storm seeing what happens. I am going to use the observer of monkey mind thing I learned from David and if things feel intense at times do grounding because when I feel things I feel my energy increase. I'll pay attention to stimuli, when I feel my body respond, and when my mind then emotions flare up. I will share more later and if this isn't worth the time I understand and I am not even expecting an answer yet if there's one where I can hear your thoughts I'd appreciate it.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2023 13:21:13 GMT -7
Draconis I reflected on my ups then downs. Sometimes I feel great and other days I feel worthless because I base my worth on my ability to be up to speed or handle things that come to my life. Life is full of ups and downs. Sometimes I'll fall and sometimes I'll cry but I keep getting up.
I think life is about experiencing the whole damn thing and integrating it freely. My reasoning was tempered and I turned to active choice making that took time. Sometimes I fail to regulate and during those times I learn about all the pressure I'm adding or how I can step away from over ruminating or overthinking which leads to a lot of self imposed misery. The more I learn to honor my feelings, my body, myself the easier those ups n downs feel. I am one hundred percent responsible for everything and instead of fearing I feel ready and able to move past even if I feel afraid. Life is tough yet it's also beautiful and full of lessons.
My emotions and my self worth are connected. I can step away from devaluing myself when I am struggling and encourage myself plus talk encouraging to myself when I'm down. The acknowledgment of what is going on and yet the focus helps me. These last few years have been trying yet every time I've gone down I've also come back up. The more I learn to acknowledge this and remove some stuff the whole I feel. When I feel whole I feel better too and less scared of things. Things naturally balance emselves out.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2023 13:55:44 GMT -7
"you wear the trappings of a sith yet I sense much fear in you." -I think dooku said that. I am going to go on a shadow hunt for that emotion. This came up a few times and I'd like to recognize the fear in me. *focuses back to mix*
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2023 15:11:34 GMT -7
youtube.com/live/A1I2IX5p0ik1. Never let the past chain you and let your trauma rule you. unresolved trauma goes into your relationships. Sith/Kurai Kages seek to break their chains by investing in self healing, getting pro help, and doing the work via mental/emotional plasticity. 2. be mindful of predators. Prime target are those who are still very traumatized. 3. Grow up and place accountability on yourself for your actions. Everything is a learning experience and you will keep seeing the learning experiences until you can learn from them. Let's hope you can break the cycle before it destroys you. 4. Neve hold back. Refund self. Learn discernment. Social Circles/Boundaries etc. #philosophy #kurakage #sith #selfdevelopment
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Post by VixenV on Oct 4, 2023 18:05:08 GMT -7
Haha... he doesn't care. He's not your friend or your ally. No one gives a shit about you.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2023 18:46:29 GMT -7
Haha... he doesn't care. He's not your friend or your ally. No one gives a shit about you. if I didn't do this I wouldn't have discovered all of this. Sometimes putting things into words is beneficial for some good ol self contemplation. I will use what is beneficial to me when I want and how I want. goodnight sparkle pony. onthebeatingtravel.com/what-is-a-sparkle-pony-at-burning-man/they expect to get everything they need from other burners, mistakenly thinking that the gift economy will work in their favour. Someone who does this habitually is called a serial sparkler (in most burners’ opinions, they are the worst type). *pets sparkle pony before walking away*
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2023 18:56:51 GMT -7
Haha... he doesn't care. He's not your friend or your ally. No one gives a shit about you. if I didn't do this I wouldn't have discovered all of this. Sometimes putting things into words is beneficial for some good ol self contemplation. I will use what is beneficial to me when I want and how I want. goodnight sparkle pony. onthebeatingtravel.com/what-is-a-sparkle-pony-at-burning-man/they expect to get everything they need from other burners, mistakenly thinking that the gift economy will work in their favour. Someone who does this habitually is called a serial sparkler (in most burners’ opinions, they are the worst type). *pets sparkle pony before walking away* me thinks you think it still somehow beneficial to do what you are doing or that you have some sort of angle. *shrugs and does her thing while surfing the energy* if anything I kinda like the push, gib me more please. Push me harder so I can surf it more. forge me stronger.....turn up the heat lol. you do your thing unicorn, just make sure to clean up the shit after you leave cause idk if any of us wants any horse unicorn shit no the dojo mats. with all da heat in da kitchen it sure as hell smells.
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Post by VixenV on Oct 4, 2023 21:36:45 GMT -7
I am the sparkle pony.. The last born unicorn!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2023 7:07:32 GMT -7
I am the sparkle pony.. The last born unicorn! One hell of a high maintenance pony for sure that wanted everything, yet no sane person can give it. You have no spirituality and there is no growth you can do. Everyone here has helped and you act like you grow but you actions don't show. Hell maybe raven will help but she's tried to help you before. In fact she told me it's a waste of time and I kinda see she said that now. You have no wounds, you just only say that to play victim for further excuses to spread more lies. It's funny watching you try to wound me then say your wounded, I don't even lick my wounds anymore. *leans down on elbows and curiously waits for more angles* I'm curious now what else you'll spam.
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Post by VixenV on Oct 5, 2023 18:30:49 GMT -7
I am the sparkle pony.. The last born unicorn! One hell of a high maintenance pony for sure that wanted everything, yet no sane person can give it. You have no spirituality and there is no growth you can do. Everyone here has helped and you act like you grow but you actions don't show. Hell maybe raven will help but she's tried to help you before. In fact she told me it's a waste of time and I kinda see she said that now. You have no wounds, you just only say that to play victim for further excuses to spread more lies. It's funny watching you try to wound me then say your wounded, I don't even lick my wounds anymore. *leans down on elbows and curiously waits for more angles* I'm curious now what else you'll spam. I am the last born unicorn. You stole that I am the peaceful warrior You stole that I am the storm and you stole that Your entire training program is plagiarized new age bullshit. You don't have an original bone in your body, same as luciana that plagiarized all her shit! You are a fucking clone! Don't believe me... ask Lord Paxius.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2023 19:12:47 GMT -7
One hell of a high maintenance pony for sure that wanted everything, yet no sane person can give it. You have no spirituality and there is no growth you can do. Everyone here has helped and you act like you grow but you actions don't show. Hell maybe raven will help but she's tried to help you before. In fact she told me it's a waste of time and I kinda see she said that now. You have no wounds, you just only say that to play victim for further excuses to spread more lies. It's funny watching you try to wound me then say your wounded, I don't even lick my wounds anymore. *leans down on elbows and curiously waits for more angles* I'm curious now what else you'll spam. I am the last born unicorn. You stole that I am the peaceful warrior You stole that I am the storm and you stole that Your entire training program is plagiarized new age bullshit. You don't have an original bone in your body, same as luciana that plagiarized all her shit! You are a fucking clone! Don't believe me... ask Lord Paxius. *spews her drink and rolls back laughing hard* I am laughing right now.....omg. That is funny......my dear soul no one can steal you. who'd want too as well, ah well I'll take the Luciana thing as a compliment. go us we both had common sense to walk away from this shit cause it stinks so bad. ur weak if someone can steal.
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Post by VixenV on Oct 5, 2023 19:33:15 GMT -7
I am the last born unicorn. You stole that I am the peaceful warrior You stole that I am the storm and you stole that Your entire training program is plagiarized new age bullshit. You don't have an original bone in your body, same as luciana that plagiarized all her shit! You are a fucking clone! Don't believe me... ask Lord Paxius. *spews her drink and rolls back laughing hard* I am laughing right now.....omg. That is funny......my dear soul no one can steal you. who'd want too as well, ah well I'll take the Luciana thing as a compliment. go us we both had common sense to walk away from this shit cause it stinks so bad. ur weak if someone can steal. Ahh so now your arch nemesis, the very person you despised and wanted to kick her ass in a martial arts tourney is now something you aspire to be like. Your true colors continue to reveal themself. you are a liar, and a thief and a plagarist. You and luciana are in good company. She even tried to steal the title of lord from Draconis. You are just like her... Fucking slimey slithering snakes that want to slime your way out of the very consequences you have created for yourself. Luciana lied about you and about zealot at TOTJO. she tried to discredit you, and she failed... now you doing the same thing. How does it feel to fall so far and become the thing you once hated and despised?... stupid cunt.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2023 21:00:00 GMT -7
*spews her drink and rolls back laughing hard* I am laughing right now.....omg. That is funny......my dear soul no one can steal you. who'd want too as well, ah well I'll take the Luciana thing as a compliment. go us we both had common sense to walk away from this shit cause it stinks so bad. ur weak if someone can steal. Ahh so now your arch nemesis, the very person you despised and wanted to kick her ass in a martial arts tourney is now something you aspire to be like. Your true colors continue to reveal themself. you are a liar, and a thief and a plagarist. You and luciana are in good company. She even tried to steal the title of lord from Draconis. You are just like her... Fucking slimey slithering snakes that want to slime your way out of the very consequences you have created for yourself. Luciana lied about you and about zealot at TOTJO. she tried to discredit you, and she failed... now you doing the same thing. How does it feel to fall so far and become the thing you once hated and despised?... stupid cunt. "You Burl were born to be bad, so that others could rise to be their best self."
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Post by VixenV on Oct 5, 2023 21:04:08 GMT -7
Ahh so now your arch nemesis, the very person you despised and wanted to kick her ass in a martial arts tourney is now something you aspire to be like. Your true colors continue to reveal themself. you are a liar, and a thief and a plagarist. You and luciana are in good company. She even tried to steal the title of lord from Draconis. You are just like her... Fucking slimey slithering snakes that want to slime your way out of the very consequences you have created for yourself. Luciana lied about you and about zealot at TOTJO. she tried to discredit you, and she failed... now you doing the same thing. How does it feel to fall so far and become the thing you once hated and despised?... stupid cunt. "You Burl were born to be bad, so that others could rise to be their best self." I was born to be bad, but not for the reason you think. I am the mirror that reflects your own corruption. I was your putty, you formed me into what I am. What you sow you will reap. I am your nightmare come to life. Your subconscious speaks to you... will you finally listen? or will you be forced back to your asylum of insanity as you cry innocence for your own consequences?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2023 21:07:15 GMT -7
"You Burl were born to be bad, so that others could rise to be their best self." I was born to be bad, but not for the reason you think. I am the mirror that reflects your own corruption. I was your putty, you formed me into what I am. What you sow you will reap. I am your nightmare come to life. Your subconscious speaks to you... will you finally listen? or will you be forced back to your asylum of insanity as you cry innocence for your own consequences? if you were my putty you'd have been successful yet oh well. your funny. If you were putty you'd have been moulded into something no one wanted to kick or ban. I tried to gib you da tools but meh. Audra, raven, luci, me, ally, soon to be zealot, you have failed to be actually taught by and show us you learned. a child could do better then you but personally I dislike teaching children. they are too dumb and learning shit still so I personally train adults only as it should be.
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Post by VixenV on Oct 5, 2023 21:14:07 GMT -7
I was born to be bad, but not for the reason you think. I am the mirror that reflects your own corruption. I was your putty, you formed me into what I am. What you sow you will reap. I am your nightmare come to life. Your subconscious speaks to you... will you finally listen? or will you be forced back to your asylum of insanity as you cry innocence for your own consequences? if you were my putty you'd have been successful yet oh well. your funny. If you were putty you'd have been moulded into something no one wanted to kick or ban. I tried to gib you da tools but meh. Audra, raven, luci, me, ally, soon to be zealot, you have failed to be actually taught by and show us you learned. a child could do better then you but personally I dislike teaching children. they are too dumb and learning shit still so I personally train adults only as it should be. You can't teach an individual that has been touched by the mission of the divine Goddess of passion. Silly fucking child! Only patient guidance to unlock potential works. You lack the skill and the wild laugh at you. I am a wild thing, I can not be tamed! Don't you know this yet! you claim study with miles and yet you still fail to see. It seems spreading your legs to get approval is more important than the integrity it takes to perseve and gain real wisdom. better to be made agreeable than tame!! I will never be tamed and you don't possess the ability to make me agreeable.
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